If you still held, there must be a possible reason. Unexplained absences, strange phone calls, unusual private life, behavior change, unnecessary arguments any / all of these problems may be a sign of difficulty. It has been our experience over the years that if the situation is important enough to affect your personal, business or financial future, strong consideration should be given to the issue. This is especially important when you have a "gut" feeling that something is wrong or the person is not always open on the activities or issues. Often we do not trust our instincts rather, they are usually very accurate.